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	<description>some of my many thoughts</description>
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		<title>Comment on The art of B.S by Paul</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2009/04/02/the-art-of-bs/#comment-69</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 11:21:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve always found that on the odd occasion where I want some kind of tick of approval that little-bit-too-much, it doesn&#039;t matter how encouraging or affirming someone is - I don&#039;t believe them anyway.

Sounds like the locus of control discussion all over again actually.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always found that on the odd occasion where I want some kind of tick of approval that little-bit-too-much, it doesn&#8217;t matter how encouraging or affirming someone is &#8211; I don&#8217;t believe them anyway.</p>
<p>Sounds like the locus of control discussion all over again actually.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Have you seen the boy I met just once before? by Ruth</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2009/03/30/have-you-seen-the-boy-i-met-just-once-before/#comment-68</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 13:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes Christina you&#039;re right. It is a terrible photo though...unintentional that he&#039;s even in it- but quite funny nonetheless! Short of plastering it about the place I think I&#039;ll give up on my little dream</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes Christina you&#8217;re right. It is a terrible photo though&#8230;unintentional that he&#8217;s even in it- but quite funny nonetheless! Short of plastering it about the place I think I&#8217;ll give up on my little dream</p>
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		<title>Comment on Have you seen the boy I met just once before? by Christina</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2009/03/30/have-you-seen-the-boy-i-met-just-once-before/#comment-67</link>
		<dc:creator>Christina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 10:33:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>was there photographic evidence on Facebook?   I may have seen him there....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>was there photographic evidence on Facebook?   I may have seen him there&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The art of B.S by Geoff</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2009/04/02/the-art-of-bs/#comment-66</link>
		<dc:creator>Geoff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 03:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could be wrong here Ruthie, but I think that lots of the time you&#039;re a lot better at things than you actually believe. So when people are telling you that all you need to get through is make it look like you&#039;re talking about, they&#039;re often just wanting to make sure that your lack of confidence in your own abilities is what might actually get in the way of you getting the acknowledgement you&#039;re looking for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could be wrong here Ruthie, but I think that lots of the time you&#8217;re a lot better at things than you actually believe. So when people are telling you that all you need to get through is make it look like you&#8217;re talking about, they&#8217;re often just wanting to make sure that your lack of confidence in your own abilities is what might actually get in the way of you getting the acknowledgement you&#8217;re looking for.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Have you seen the boy I met just once before? by Ruth</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2009/03/30/have-you-seen-the-boy-i-met-just-once-before/#comment-65</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2009 12:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahaha thanks Scott!! About a head taller than me, dark brown curly-ish hair, dark brown eyes. It&#039;s sad that I know this...but dunlop volley shoes, blue jeans and a black volcom t.shirt!! Also a drummer, a beer drinker and a big coldplay fan! Yes...I need professional help *sigh*.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahaha thanks Scott!! About a head taller than me, dark brown curly-ish hair, dark brown eyes. It&#8217;s sad that I know this&#8230;but dunlop volley shoes, blue jeans and a black volcom t.shirt!! Also a drummer, a beer drinker and a big coldplay fan! Yes&#8230;I need professional help *sigh*.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Have you seen the boy I met just once before? by scott</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2009/03/30/have-you-seen-the-boy-i-met-just-once-before/#comment-64</link>
		<dc:creator>scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 04:17:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Have you a description Ruth? Blond, Red Head, Accountant... Just in case I bump into him, I can let you know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you a description Ruth? Blond, Red Head, Accountant&#8230; Just in case I bump into him, I can let you know.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About me by scott</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/about/#comment-63</link>
		<dc:creator>scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 16:31:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Ruth what has happened to the posts. All dried up over Christmas. Hope you are going well</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Ruth what has happened to the posts. All dried up over Christmas. Hope you are going well</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dancing + Me = :D by Christina</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2008/10/07/dancing-me-d/#comment-58</link>
		<dc:creator>Christina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 12:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well done Ruth!  I can&#039;t help but imagine the whole scene with a vibrant Baz Lurhmann-esque edge to it all (Strictly Ballroom, Cosi etc).  Anyway, very proud.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well done Ruth!  I can&#8217;t help but imagine the whole scene with a vibrant Baz Lurhmann-esque edge to it all (Strictly Ballroom, Cosi etc).  Anyway, very proud.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Deep Heat by Christina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 13:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amazing story Ruth!  I am sure God can work through deep heat... ;-).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amazing story Ruth!  I am sure God can work through deep heat&#8230; <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
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		<title>Comment on Not quite dead yet by Paul</title>
		<link>http://velegedachten.wordpress.com/2008/09/22/not-quite-dead-yet/#comment-51</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 12:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Try rubbing some more deep heat on your forehead... :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Try rubbing some more deep heat on your forehead&#8230; <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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